No no no no, I’m not taking about death….actually I am but thats at the end of a very long journey.
We all travel through several journeys, all at the one time. Your journey through your career, lovelife, growing up and everywhere inbetween is what makes you, well you. All these experiences that you have had in your life are different from someones elses…even if they were standing right next to you. Unique just like you.
No one else regardless of how similar the experience, has walked the exact same path as you. We’ve all interact with others in different ways and at different times in your life and the lives of those whom ever your interacting with.
This therefore makes every situation unique and the possibilities of outcomes endless. It all comes down to how you, yes YOU, interact with others. not how they act to you.
I remember being in a house and a firework went off in the house, everybody ran except for one. that person froze. despite being in the exact same room at the same time, they remember it differently than I do.
That person still hates fireworks…and frogs but thats another story.
I have spent lot of time with this person and been through different struggles about the same event and different stuggles for the other events and paths we have went down.
We have different sized families, different veiws, different attitudes towards both ourselves and others. One thing we do have in common is acceptance of each other and trust, at the very least trust in that the other thought this was the best option for them and the situation they are in.
Through these close relationships I have come to recongnise to take everyones story with a pinch of salt because everyone veiws things differently and rightly so cos they’re not me and they’re not you.
The moral of the tale….Be yourself!